{"id":344,"date":"2026-01-05T18:21:10","date_gmt":"2026-01-05T18:21:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/iliski-ocd-nedir-asiri-dusunceler-kizlari-nasil-uzaklastiriyor\/"},"modified":"2026-01-05T18:21:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-05T18:21:10","slug":"iliski-ocd-nedir-asiri-dusunceler-kizlari-nasil-uzaklastiriyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/iliski-ocd-nedir-asiri-dusunceler-kizlari-nasil-uzaklastiriyor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fki OCD nedir? A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler k\u0131zlar\u0131 nas\u0131l uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD ya\u015fayanlar i\u00e7in ili\u015fkideki a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler hem ki\u015fiyi hem partnerini yorar; \u0130li\u015fki OCD\u2019nin temel belirtilerinden, yayg\u0131n tak\u0131nt\u0131lara ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6rneklerine kadar bu yaz\u0131da nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, k\u0131zlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini ve ili\u015fkinin dinamiklerini nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirdi\u011fini dostane bir dille ele alaca\u011f\u0131m. Partner tepkileri, uzakla\u015fma i\u015faretleri ve onar\u0131m\u0131 sa\u011flayacak pratik ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma yollar\u0131n\u0131 da ad\u0131m ad\u0131m payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD nedir? Temel belirtiler ve nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD, ki\u015finin partnerine dair s\u00fcrekli ku\u015fku, kontrol ihtiyac\u0131 ve zihinsel rit\u00fceller ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir kayg\u0131 formudur. Genellikle sevgi veya sadakat sorgulamalar\u0131yla ba\u015flar; ancak k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. \u00d6zetle:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Temel belirtiler<\/strong><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>S\u00fcrekli &#8220;Do\u011fru ki\u015fi mi?&#8221; veya &#8220;Ger\u00e7ekten seviyor mu?&#8221; diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme<\/li><li>Zihinsel onay arama ve detaylar\u0131 tekrar tekrar kontrol etme<\/li><li>A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ipucunu b\u00fcy\u00fck anlamlara ba\u011flama<\/li><li>Rahats\u0131z edici d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri bast\u0131rmak i\u00e7in rit\u00fceller (mesajlar\u0131 tekrar okuma, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi sorgulama)<\/li><\/ul><\/li><li><strong>Nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar?<\/strong><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Genetik yatk\u0131nl\u0131k, stresli ya\u015fam olaylar\u0131 veya \u00f6nceki ili\u015fki travmalar\u0131 tetikler.<\/li><li>Ayr\u0131ca d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck \u00f6zg\u00fcven ve m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik e\u011filimleri s\u00fcreci h\u0131zland\u0131r\u0131r.<\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma tablosu:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Normal \u015e\u00fcphe<\/th><th>\u0130li\u015fki OCD<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Ara s\u0131ra endi\u015fe<\/td><td>S\u00fcrekli tekrarlayan tak\u0131nt\u0131lar<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Ge\u00e7ici rahats\u0131zl\u0131k<\/td><td>G\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flevi bozan zihinsel rit\u00fceller<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, \u0130li\u015fki OCD erken fark edilirse ili\u015fkideki zararlar\u0131 azal\u0131r; bu y\u00fczden fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler: Yayg\u0131n tak\u0131nt\u0131lar ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6rnekleri<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki ba\u011flam\u0131nda <em>\u0130li\u015fki OCD<\/em> ya\u015fayan ki\u015filerde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler s\u0131k ve rahats\u0131z edicidir. \u00d6rne\u011fin:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>S\u00fcrekli \u015f\u00fcphe:<\/strong> &#8220;Beni ger\u00e7ekten seviyor mu?&#8221; sorusunu defalarca sormak.<\/li><li><strong>Onay arama:<\/strong> Mesajlara tekrar tekrar bakmak, partnerin tepkisini test etmek.<\/li><li><strong>Moral sorumluluk tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131:<\/strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hatalar i\u00e7in kendini a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 su\u00e7lamak.<\/li><li><strong>Gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131:<\/strong> \u0130li\u015fkinin bitmesini \u00f6nceden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek ve senaryolar \u00fcretmek.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">G\u00fcnl\u00fck davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6rnekleri:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Mesaj ge\u00e7mi\u015fini kontrol etme,<\/li><li>S\u00fcrekli \u00f6z\u00fcr dileme veya fazla telafi etme,<\/li><li>S\u0131nav mant\u0131\u011f\u0131yla partneri test etme (\u00f6rne\u011fin k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k oyunlar\u0131).<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma tablosu:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Normal d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce<\/th><th>\u0130li\u015fki OCD d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Zaman zaman endi\u015fe duymak<\/td><td>Ayn\u0131 endi\u015feyi saatlerce tekrar etmek<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>G\u00fcven byggabetmek<\/td><td>S\u00fcrekli onay aramak, g\u00fcveni test etmek<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, bu tak\u0131nt\u0131lar ili\u015fkiyi yorar; ancak fark edip uygun ad\u0131mlar at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda d\u00fczelme m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler k\u0131zlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiler ve ili\u015fki dinamiklerini nas\u0131l de\u011fi\u015ftirir<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD belirtileri, partner \u00fczerinde do\u011frudan ve dolayl\u0131 etkiler yarat\u0131r. <em>\u00d6ncelikle<\/em> g\u00fcven duygusunu zedeler; ard\u0131ndan ili\u015fki dinamikleri h\u0131zla de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Duygusal yorgunluk:<\/strong> S\u00fcrekli teyit arama ve \u015f\u00fcphe, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 yorar.<\/li><li><strong>G\u00fcvensizlik art\u0131\u015f\u0131:<\/strong> Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf kendini su\u00e7lu hissetmese bile s\u00fcrekli su\u00e7lan\u0131r gibi hisseder.<\/li><li><strong>\u0130leti\u015fim kopuklu\u011fu:<\/strong> Samimi konu\u015fmalar yerini tart\u0131\u015fma veya ka\u00e7\u0131nmaya b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma, de\u011fi\u015fimi \u00f6zetler:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Durum<\/th><th align=\"right\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u0130li\u015fki<\/th><th align=\"right\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD Varyant\u0131<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>G\u00fcven<\/td><td align=\"right\">A\u00e7\u0131k, artan<\/td><td align=\"right\">S\u00fcrekli s\u0131nan\u0131yor<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>\u0130leti\u015fim<\/td><td align=\"right\">A\u00e7\u0131k ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst<\/td><td align=\"right\">Savunmac\u0131 veya ka\u00e7\u0131nan<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Yak\u0131nl\u0131k<\/td><td align=\"right\">Rahat ve s\u0131cak<\/td><td align=\"right\">Gerilimli, mesafeli<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, \u0130li\u015fki OCD hem duygusal ba\u011flar\u0131 zay\u0131flat\u0131r hem de zamanla partneri uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Bu y\u00fczden erken fark edip, birlikte \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aramak \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Partnerin tepkileri: Anlay\u0131\u015f, y\u0131pranma ve uzakla\u015fma i\u015faretleri<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki i\u00e7inde <em>\u0130li\u015fki OCD<\/em> belirtileri g\u00f6r\u00fcnce partner farkl\u0131 tepkiler verebilir. \u00d6ncelikle empatiyle yakla\u015fan biri destek olur; ancak uzun s\u00fcre tekrar eden tak\u0131nt\u0131lar ili\u015fkide y\u0131pranmaya yol a\u00e7ar.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Anlay\u0131\u015f ve destek<\/strong>: Sab\u0131r, a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim, birlikte terapi aray\u0131\u015f\u0131, yeniden g\u00fcven in\u015fa etme.<\/li><li><strong>Y\u0131pranma belirtileri<\/strong>: S\u00fcrekli savunmaya ge\u00e7me, duygusal t\u00fckenme, tart\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n s\u0131kla\u015fmas\u0131.<\/li><li><strong>Uzakla\u015fma i\u015faretleri<\/strong>: Fiziksel mesafe, duygusal kapanma, ileti\u015fim azaltma.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma tablosu:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th><th align=\"right\">Anlay\u0131\u015f<\/th><th align=\"right\">Y\u0131pranma \/ Uzakla\u015fma<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Konu\u015fma s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/td><td align=\"right\">Artar<\/td><td align=\"right\">Azal\u0131r<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Sab\u0131r<\/td><td align=\"right\">Y\u00fcksek<\/td><td align=\"right\">D\u00fc\u015fer<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Yak\u0131nl\u0131k<\/td><td align=\"right\">Korunur<\/td><td align=\"right\">Zay\u0131flar<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bununla birlikte, erken m\u00fcdahale i\u015fleri de\u011fi\u015ftirir. E\u011fer partnerinizde <strong>uzakla\u015fma i\u015faretleri<\/strong> g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsan\u0131z, a\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fun, s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyun ve birlikte profesyonel destek aray\u0131n \u2014 b\u00f6ylece \u0130li\u015fki OCD\u2019nin zarar\u0131n\u0131 azaltabilirsiniz.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma yollar\u0131 ve ili\u015fkiyi onarmaya y\u00f6nelik pratik ad\u0131mlar<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6ncelikle kabullenme ve d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck gerekir. <em>\u0130li\u015fki OCD<\/em> ile ba\u015f ederken hem bireysel hem \u00e7ift olarak ad\u0131m atmak ili\u015fkide g\u00fcveni yeniden tesis eder. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da uygulanabilir yollar var:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Profesyonel destek:<\/strong> Bili\u015fsel davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 terapi (\u00d6zellikle ERP) ve gerekirse ila\u00e7 tedavisi.<\/li><li><strong>A\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim:<\/strong> Duygular\u0131n\u0131 su\u00e7lamadan payla\u015f; partnerine ne hissetti\u011fini, neye ihtiyac\u0131n oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131kla.<\/li><li><strong>D\u00fcrt\u00fcleri erteleme:<\/strong> Tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce geldi\u011finde 10-20 dakika ertele ve sonra tekrar de\u011ferlendir.<\/li><li><strong>G\u00fcnl\u00fck rutin:<\/strong> D\u00fczenli uyku, egzersiz ve meditasyon anksiyeteyi azalt\u0131r.<\/li><li><strong>S\u0131n\u0131rlar koyma:<\/strong> Hem kendi hem partnerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 netle\u015ftir.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ayr\u0131ca k\u0131sa bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Yakla\u015f\u0131m<\/th><th>Etkisi<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Yaln\u0131zca savunma \/ tart\u0131\u015fma<\/td><td>\u0130li\u015fkide y\u0131pranma<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Terapi + ileti\u015fim<\/td><td>G\u00fcvenin yeniden in\u015fas\u0131<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, sab\u0131r ve tutarl\u0131l\u0131k gerekir. B\u00f6ylece <em>\u0130li\u015fki OCD<\/em> ile ili\u015fkini onarabilir ve daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131lar kurabilirsin.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">S\u0131k\u00e7a Sorulan Sorular<\/h2><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD (\u0130li\u015fki Tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131) nedir ve nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD, ki\u015finin ili\u015fkisinden \u015f\u00fcphe duymas\u0131, s\u00fcrekli onay aramas\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n &#8216;ger\u00e7ek&#8217; olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamas\u0131yla karakterize edilen bir obsesif-kompulsif bozukluk alt tipidir. Ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131 genellikle kayg\u0131 d\u00fczeyi y\u00fcksek ki\u015filik \u00f6zellikleri, ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki travmalar, reddedilme korkusu veya belirsizlikle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma zorluklar\u0131yla ili\u015fkilidir. Ki\u015fi s\u00fcrekli olarak partnerinin kendisini sevip sevmedi\u011fini, ili\u015fkiye uygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ya da duygular\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr; bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler zamanla tekrarlay\u0131c\u0131 kontrol davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na (s\u00fcrekli mesaj atma, izleme, onaylama arama) d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Bu durum ili\u015fkide hem duygusal hem de g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flevsellikte belirgin bozulma yarat\u0131r.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler (overthinking) k\u0131zlar\u0131 neden uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler, s\u00fcrekli \u015f\u00fcphe, k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k ve kontrol davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na yol a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ili\u015fkinin do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bozar. Partneriniz s\u00fcrekli sorgulan\u0131rsa, samimiyet azal\u0131r; g\u00fcven zedelenir ve ili\u015fki stresli bir ortam haline gelir. Ayr\u0131ca a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 analiz eden ki\u015fi duygusal olarak me\u015fgul oldu\u011fundan empati kurmakta zorlanabilir; bu da kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmamas\u0131na sebep olur. K\u0131zlar genellikle g\u00fcven, rahatl\u0131k ve duygusal istikrar ararlar; s\u00fcrekli endi\u015fe ve onay ihtiyac\u0131 bu beklentileri zedeler. Sonu\u00e7 olarak partner, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmi\u015f veya s\u00fcrekli ele\u015ftiriliyormu\u015f hissine kap\u0131larak uzakla\u015fabilir.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD belirtileri ili\u015fkide hangi davran\u0131\u015flara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130li\u015fki OCD belirtileri ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye de\u011fi\u015fmekle birlikte s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen davran\u0131\u015flar aras\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli mesaj atma veya arama, partnerin sosyal medya ve mesajlar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etme, ge\u00e7mi\u015f konu\u015fmalar\u0131 tekrar tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme, partnerin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck anlamlar y\u00fckleyerek yorumlama ve duygular\u0131n &#8216;ger\u00e7ekli\u011fini&#8217; test etmek i\u00e7in s\u0131k s\u0131k onay isteme yer al\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca ki\u015fi olas\u0131 senaryolar\u0131 defalarca zihninde oynat\u0131r ve kayg\u0131 azalmas\u0131 i\u00e7in rit\u00fceller (\u00f6rne\u011fin ayr\u0131l\u0131k planlama ya da ili\u015fkiyi s\u00fcrekli test etme) geli\u015ftirebilir. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar ili\u015fkinin dinamizmini bozar ve uzun vadede kopmalara yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bu durumla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmak ve ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek i\u00e7in ne yap\u0131labilir?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6ncelikle fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazanmak \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131md\u0131r: a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin tak\u0131nt\u0131 oldu\u011funu ve ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 i\u015fleyi\u015fini engelledi\u011fini kabul etmek gerekir. Bireysel terapiler, \u00f6zellikle BDT (Bili\u015fsel Davran\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131 Terapi), obsesif d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmada etkilidir; maruz b\u0131rakma ve tepki \u00f6nleme (ERP) gibi y\u00f6ntemler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin kontrol edilmesini sa\u011flar. \u0130leti\u015fimde \u015feffafl\u0131k ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar koyma partner i\u00e7in rahatlat\u0131c\u0131 olabilir; duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 su\u00e7lamadan payla\u015fmak, onay arama d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc azalt\u0131r. D\u00fczenli stres y\u00f6netimi, mindfulness\/meditasyon ve hobilerle zihni da\u011f\u0131tmak da yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Gerekti\u011finde \u00e7ift terapisi veya psikiyatrik destek (ila\u00e7 tedavisi) se\u00e7enekleri de de\u011ferlendirilmelidir; profesyonel yard\u0131m, hem bireyin hem de ili\u015fkinin daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flar.<\/p><script type=\"application\/ld+json\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@type\":\"FAQPage\",\"mainEntity\":[{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"\u0130li\u015fki OCD (\u0130li\u015fki Tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131) nedir ve nas\u0131l ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"\u0130li\u015fki OCD, ki\u015finin ili\u015fkisinden \u015f\u00fcphe duymas\u0131, s\u00fcrekli onay aramas\u0131 ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n 'ger\u00e7ek' olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamas\u0131yla karakterize edilen bir obsesif-kompulsif bozukluk alt tipidir. 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Gerekti\u011finde \u00e7ift terapisi veya psikiyatrik destek (ila\u00e7 tedavisi) se\u00e7enekleri de de\u011ferlendirilmelidir; profesyonel yard\u0131m, hem bireyin hem de ili\u015fkinin daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flar.\"}}]}<\/script>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu yaz\u0131da \u0130li\u015fki OCD&#8217;nin ne oldu\u011funu, s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen tak\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6rneklerini ele al\u0131yorum. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin k\u0131zlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini, partnerin tepkilerini ve ili\u015fkide olu\u015fan mesafe belirtilerini a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yorum. Ayr\u0131ca pratik ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kma yollar\u0131 ve ili\u015fkiyi onarmaya y\u00f6nelik ad\u0131mlarla \u00e7iftlerin yeniden ba\u011f kurmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak \u00f6neriler sunuyorum. Okuyucu dostu \u00f6rnekler, ileti\u015fim teknikleri ve ne zaman profesyonel yard\u0131m araman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi hakk\u0131nda ipu\u00e7lar\u0131 veriyorum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":343,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yeni-insanlarla-tanis"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=344"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/344\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/343"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=344"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=344"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=344"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}