{"id":151,"date":"2025-12-30T00:13:11","date_gmt":"2025-12-30T00:13:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/sohbette-kendini-rezil-etmenin-7-yolu\/"},"modified":"2025-12-30T00:13:11","modified_gmt":"2025-12-30T00:13:11","slug":"sohbette-kendini-rezil-etmenin-7-yolu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/sohbette-kendini-rezil-etmenin-7-yolu\/","title":{"rendered":"Sohbette Kendini Rezil Etmenin Yollar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbette istemeden k\u00f6t\u00fc izlenim b\u0131rakmak kolayd\u0131r; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden her \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemek, bilgisi olmadan \u0131srarla d\u00fczeltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, uygunsuz \u015fakalar yapmak veya s\u00fcrekli telefona bakmak gibi davran\u0131\u015flar &#8220;Rezil olma yollar\u0131&#8221; listesinin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. Bu yaz\u0131da bu tuzaklardan nas\u0131l ka\u00e7\u0131naca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, dikkatli dinlemenin ve empati kurman\u0131n konu\u015fmalar\u0131 nas\u0131l daha rahat ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 hale getirece\u011fini samimi \u00f6rneklerle anlataca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden Her \u015eeyi S\u00f6ylemek ve A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 A\u00e7\u0131\u011fa Vurma<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbette an\u0131nda akl\u0131na gelen her \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemek, s\u0131k yap\u0131lan <i>rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i>ndan biridir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insanlar genelde empati ve ba\u011flama g\u00f6re konu\u015fmay\u0131 bekler; ancak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden konu\u015ftu\u011funuzda yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lma ve utan\u00e7 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olur.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neler yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Ki\u015fisel, hassas detaylar\u0131 payla\u015fmak<\/li><li>Eski ili\u015fkiler veya dedikodular hakk\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fmak<\/li><li>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecek yorumlar yaparak d\u00fcrt\u00fcsel davranmak<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th><th>Sonu\u00e7<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek konu\u015fmak<\/td><td>Sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcven kazan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Her \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemek<\/td><td>Utan\u00e7, yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131lma<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6neriler:<\/p><ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u00d6nce nefes al\u0131n ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/li><li>\u201cBu s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim ki\u015fi\/ortam i\u00e7in uygun mu?\u201d diye sorun.<\/li><li>Gerekirse k\u0131sa bir cevap verip konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftirin.<\/li><\/ol><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu basit ad\u0131mlar sayesinde <i>Rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i> listesinin ilk s\u0131ras\u0131nda yer almaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bilgisi Olmadan Israrla Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 D\u00fczeltmeye \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbette ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrekli d\u00fczeltmek, \u00f6zellikle bilgin yoksa, h\u0131zl\u0131ca <i>rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i> aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r. Hem sinir bozucu hem de itici g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Bunun yerine \u015fu noktalara dikkat et:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Dinle \u00f6nce, sonra yorum yap.<\/li><li>Emin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n konularda soru sor; \u00f6\u011frenmeye a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011funu g\u00f6ster.<\/li><li>Tonuna dikkat et; d\u00fczeltirken nazik ol.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma tablosu faydal\u0131 olur:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th><th>Sonu\u00e7<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Israrla d\u00fczeltmek (bilgi yok)<\/td><td>Tart\u0131\u015fma, olumsuz izlenim<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Sorularla y\u00f6nlendirmek<\/td><td>G\u00fcvenilirlik, sayg\u0131 kazanma<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, aceleci ve \u0131srarc\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeler \u00e7o\u011fu zaman seni k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla, daha dikkatli konu\u015f, gerekti\u011finde kabul et ve \u00f6\u011fren. B\u00f6ylece hem tart\u0131\u015fmalardan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r hem de ger\u00e7ek &#8220;rezil olma yollar\u0131&#8221;ndan uzak durursun.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Uygunsuz \u015eakalar ve Zamanlama Hatalar\u0131 Yapmak<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uygunsuz \u015fakalar, sohbeti h\u0131zla bozan ve <i>rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/i> yok eden en yayg\u0131n rezil olma yollar\u0131 aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca, k\u00f6t\u00fc zamanlama her espriyi \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcr; kimse gergin bir ortamda lafa kahkaha eklemek istemez.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neler yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Duyarl\u0131 konularda espri yapmak<\/strong> (sa\u011fl\u0131k, aile, din).<\/li><li>\u00c7ok erken veya \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131lmak; <strong>zamanlama yanl\u0131\u015fsa \u015faka tats\u0131z olur<\/strong>.<\/li><li>Dinleyiciyi tan\u0131madan s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 zorlamak.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130pu\u00e7lar\u0131:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u00d6nce kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n mizah anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyin.<\/li><li>Gerekirse k\u0131sa bir soru sorun: \u201cBu t\u00fcr esprilere izin var m\u0131?\u201d<\/li><li>E\u011fer \u015faka ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olursa, h\u0131zl\u0131ca \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin ve konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftirin.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Do\u011fru Zamanlama<\/th><th>Yanl\u0131\u015f Zamanlama<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Ortam rahat, herkes kat\u0131l\u0131yor<\/td><td>Gerginlik veya ciddi sohbet var<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Dinleyiciyle ba\u011f kurulmu\u015f<\/td><td>Ki\u015fileri tan\u0131madan yap\u0131lan m\u00fcdahale<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu \u015fekilde gereksiz rezil olma yollar\u0131 tuzaklar\u0131ndan kolayca ka\u00e7\u0131nabilirsiniz.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sohbet S\u0131ras\u0131nda S\u00fcrekli Telefona Bakmak ve Dikkatsiz Olmak<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbette telefonla ilgilenmek, sosyal ipleri kopar\u0131r ve h\u0131zl\u0131ca <i>rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i> aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakine dikkat etmezseniz, hem sayg\u0131s\u0131z g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr hem de \u00f6nemli anlar\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ayr\u0131ca, ileti\u015fim kopmalar\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f anlamalara yol a\u00e7ar.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neden sorun?<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n kendini de\u011fersiz hissetmesi<\/li><li>Konu\u015fma ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n bozulmas\u0131<\/li><li>\u0130zlenimin k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede olumsuzla\u015fmas\u0131<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u0131zl\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th><th>Etkisi<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>S\u00fcrekli telefon kontrol\u00fc<\/td><td>So\u011fuk, ilgisiz imaj<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>G\u00f6z temas\u0131 ve k\u0131sa telefondan uzak durma<\/td><td>S\u0131cak, ilgili imaj<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pratik \u00f6neriler:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Telefonu sessize al\u0131n<\/strong> veya ba\u015fka odada b\u0131rak\u0131n.<\/li><li>\u00d6nemli de\u011filse cevap vermeyin; sonra kibarca \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin.<\/li><li>Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurun ve merakla dinleyin.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir dikkat de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fiyle <i>rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i> listesinden kolayca \u00e7\u0131kabilirsiniz.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Abart\u0131l\u0131 \u00d6v\u00fcnmeler ve \u0130lgi \u0130\u00e7in A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 Davran\u0131\u015flar<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abart\u0131l\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcnmeler ve ilgi pe\u015finde ko\u015fmak, sohbeti h\u0131zla bozar. \u0130nsanlar genelde samimiyeti ve dengeyi sever; bu y\u00fczden s\u00fcrekli kendini \u00f6vmek <strong>Rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/strong> listesinin ba\u015f\u0131ndad\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca, \u00f6verken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck detaylar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmek g\u00fcven kaybettirir.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neler yapmamal\u0131:<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>S\u00fcrekli ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 tekrarlamak<\/li><li>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6lgede b\u0131rakmak i\u00e7in konu\u015fmay\u0131 domine etmek<\/li><li>Hikayeleri abartarak anlatmak<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u0131sa bir kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma tablosu:<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><thead><tr><th>Davran\u0131\u015f<\/th><th>Etki<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>M\u00fctevaz\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131m<\/td><td>\u0130lgi \u00e7eker, sayg\u0131 kazan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Abart\u0131l\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcnme<\/td><td>Rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verir, <i>Rezil olma yollar\u0131<\/i> aras\u0131nda yer al\u0131r<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nas\u0131l d\u00fczeltilir:<\/p><ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Dinlemeye \u00f6ncelik verin.<\/li><li>Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n.<\/li><li>Ger\u00e7ek ve \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc \u00f6rnekler verin.<\/li><\/ol><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak, samimi ve dengeli olursan\u0131z hem sohbeti g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir hem de ilgi \u00e7ekici kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">S\u0131k\u00e7a Sorulan Sorular<\/h2><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Bu ba\u015fl\u0131k ciddi mi yoksa mizahi mi?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ba\u015fl\u0131k genelde mizahi ve ironik bir \u00fcslupla yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; amac\u0131 okuyucunun dikkatini \u00e7ekmek ve sosyal etkile\u015fimlerde ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 esprili bir dille vurgulamakt\u0131r. Ancak i\u00e7erik, tipik hatalar\u0131 ve nas\u0131l daha iyi ileti\u015fim kurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatarak \u00f6\u011fretici de olabilir. E\u011fer konuya duyarl\u0131 bir ba\u011flamdaysan\u0131z, metni mizah\u0131n \u00f6tesinde bir rehber olarak kullan\u0131p ger\u00e7ek hayatta uygulanmamas\u0131 gereken davran\u0131\u015flara dikkat \u00e7ekebilirsiniz.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sohbette rezil olmaktan nas\u0131l ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbette rezil olmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131n en temel yollar\u0131 empati kurmak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini dinlemek ve anl\u0131k tepkiler yerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek konu\u015fmakt\u0131r. Kendinizi kontrol etmek, espri yapmadan \u00f6nce ortam\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek ve insanlar\u0131 rencide edebilecek konulardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak \u00f6nemlidir. Ayr\u0131ca beden diliniz, ses tonunuz ve \u00f6zg\u00fcveniniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, a\u00e7\u0131k u\u00e7lu sorular sormak ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fma hakk\u0131 tan\u0131mak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Hatalar yaparsan\u0131z samimi bir \u00f6z\u00fcr genellikle durumu toparlar.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">S\u0131k yap\u0131lan sohbet hatalar\u0131 hangileridir?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En yayg\u0131n hatalar aras\u0131nda kesintilerle kar\u015f\u0131y\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmek, herkesi ayn\u0131 fikre zorlamak, \u00e7ok fazla kendinden bahsetmek, dinlememek ve uygunsuz \u015fakalar yapmak bulunur. Ayr\u0131ca telefonla fazla me\u015fgul olmak, fiziksel s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 ihlal etmek ve konuyu s\u00fcrekli de\u011fi\u015ftirmek de ili\u015fkileri zedeler. Bu hatalar\u0131n ortak noktas\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin de\u011fer ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmektir; bu nedenle daha etkili bir ileti\u015fim i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li davranmak gerekir.<\/p><h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">E\u011fer bir sohbeti mahvedersem nas\u0131l toparlar\u0131m?<\/h3><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sohbeti mahvetti\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z sakin kalmak en iyi ilk ad\u0131md\u0131r. Durumu hafifletmek i\u00e7in k\u0131sa, i\u00e7ten bir \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin ve hatan\u0131n nedenini kabul edin. Mizah kullanarak gerginli\u011fi azaltabilirsiniz, fakat bunun kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici olmamas\u0131na dikkat edin. Ard\u0131ndan konuyu yeniden pozitif bir y\u00f6ne \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n: ortak bir ilgi alan\u0131, g\u00fcncel ama zarars\u0131z bir konu ya da kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin ilgisini \u00e7ekecek bir soru i\u015fe yarar. Geriye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f zor olsa bile samimiyet ve sayg\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman durumu kurtar\u0131r.<\/p><script type=\"application\/ld+json\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@type\":\"FAQPage\",\"mainEntity\":[{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"Bu ba\u015fl\u0131k ciddi mi yoksa mizahi mi?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"Ba\u015fl\u0131k genelde mizahi ve ironik bir \u00fcslupla yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r; amac\u0131 okuyucunun dikkatini \u00e7ekmek ve sosyal etkile\u015fimlerde ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 esprili bir dille vurgulamakt\u0131r. Ancak i\u00e7erik, tipik hatalar\u0131 ve nas\u0131l daha iyi ileti\u015fim kurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatarak \u00f6\u011fretici de olabilir. E\u011fer konuya duyarl\u0131 bir ba\u011flamdaysan\u0131z, metni mizah\u0131n \u00f6tesinde bir rehber olarak kullan\u0131p ger\u00e7ek hayatta uygulanmamas\u0131 gereken davran\u0131\u015flara dikkat \u00e7ekebilirsiniz.\"}},{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"Sohbette rezil olmaktan nas\u0131l ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"Sohbette rezil olmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131nman\u0131n en temel yollar\u0131 empati kurmak, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini dinlemek ve anl\u0131k tepkiler yerine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek konu\u015fmakt\u0131r. Kendinizi kontrol etmek, espri yapmadan \u00f6nce ortam\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmek ve insanlar\u0131 rencide edebilecek konulardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmak \u00f6nemlidir. Ayr\u0131ca beden diliniz, ses tonunuz ve \u00f6zg\u00fcveniniz \u00fczerinde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, a\u00e7\u0131k u\u00e7lu sorular sormak ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 konu\u015fma hakk\u0131 tan\u0131mak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fimi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Hatalar yaparsan\u0131z samimi bir \u00f6z\u00fcr genellikle durumu toparlar.\"}},{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"S\u0131k yap\u0131lan sohbet hatalar\u0131 hangileridir?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"En yayg\u0131n hatalar aras\u0131nda kesintilerle kar\u015f\u0131y\u0131 s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmek, herkesi ayn\u0131 fikre zorlamak, \u00e7ok fazla kendinden bahsetmek, dinlememek ve uygunsuz \u015fakalar yapmak bulunur. Ayr\u0131ca telefonla fazla me\u015fgul olmak, fiziksel s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 ihlal etmek ve konuyu s\u00fcrekli de\u011fi\u015ftirmek de ili\u015fkileri zedeler. Bu hatalar\u0131n ortak noktas\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015finin de\u011fer ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmektir; bu nedenle daha etkili bir ileti\u015fim i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li davranmak gerekir.\"}},{\"@type\":\"Question\",\"name\":\"E\u011fer bir sohbeti mahvedersem nas\u0131l toparlar\u0131m?\",\"acceptedAnswer\":{\"@type\":\"Answer\",\"text\":\"Sohbeti mahvetti\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan\u0131z sakin kalmak en iyi ilk ad\u0131md\u0131r. Durumu hafifletmek i\u00e7in k\u0131sa, i\u00e7ten bir \u00f6z\u00fcr dileyin ve hatan\u0131n nedenini kabul edin. Mizah kullanarak gerginli\u011fi azaltabilirsiniz, fakat bunun kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyici olmamas\u0131na dikkat edin. Ard\u0131ndan konuyu yeniden pozitif bir y\u00f6ne \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n: ortak bir ilgi alan\u0131, g\u00fcncel ama zarars\u0131z bir konu ya da kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin ilgisini \u00e7ekecek bir soru i\u015fe yarar. Geriye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f zor olsa bile samimiyet ve sayg\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fu zaman durumu kurtar\u0131r.\"}}]}<\/script>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu yaz\u0131da, sohbette kendinizi rezil etmenize yol a\u00e7an yedi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 ele al\u0131yoruz: d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden her \u015feyi s\u00f6ylemek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeye \u0131srar etmek, uygunsuz \u015fakalar, telefonla dalmak, abart\u0131l\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcnmeler ve ilgi aray\u0131\u015flar\u0131. Pratik ipu\u00e7lar\u0131yla hatalar\u0131 fark etmeyi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcvenle konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freneceksiniz. 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