{"id":11,"date":"2025-12-24T04:49:58","date_gmt":"2025-12-24T04:49:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/?p=11"},"modified":"2025-12-24T04:53:55","modified_gmt":"2025-12-24T04:53:55","slug":"bu-mesaji-atanlar-fark-etmeden-eleniyor-devami-ilk-mesajda-cevap-almanin-psikolojisi-ve-dogru-ornekler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/bu-mesaji-atanlar-fark-etmeden-eleniyor-devami-ilk-mesajda-cevap-almanin-psikolojisi-ve-dogru-ornekler\/","title":{"rendered":"\ud83d\udc49 Bu Mesaj\u0131 Atanlar Fark Etmeden Eleniyor (Devam\u0131) \ud83d\udd0e \u0130lk Mesajda Cevap Alman\u0131n Psikolojisi ve Do\u011fru \u00d6rnekler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"4471\" data-end=\"4587\">Bir \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131da \u015funu net g\u00f6rd\u00fck:<br data-start=\"4505\" data-end=\"4508\" \/>\u00c7o\u011fu insan <strong data-start=\"4519\" data-end=\"4553\">k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil<\/strong>,<br data-start=\"4554\" data-end=\"4557\" \/><strong data-start=\"4557\" data-end=\"4577\">fark\u0131nda olmadan<\/strong> eleniyor.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4471\" data-end=\"4587\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/tr\/bu-mesaji-atanlar-fark-etmeden-eleniyor-dating-uygulamalarinda-yanlis-ilk-mesaj-ornekleri\/\">Bir \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumak i\u00e7in TIKLA<\/a><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4589\" data-end=\"4605\">\u015eimdi bu yaz\u0131da:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"4606\" data-end=\"4717\">\n<li data-start=\"4606\" data-end=\"4637\">\n<p data-start=\"4608\" data-end=\"4637\">Neyi neden yapman gerekti\u011fini<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4638\" data-end=\"4675\">\n<p data-start=\"4640\" data-end=\"4675\">\u0130lk mesaj\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki psikolojiyi<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4676\" data-end=\"4717\">\n<p data-start=\"4678\" data-end=\"4717\">Ger\u00e7ekten cevap gelen mesaj t\u00fcrlerini<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4719\" data-end=\"4741\">ad\u0131m ad\u0131m anlat\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"4743\" data-end=\"4746\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"4748\" data-end=\"4779\">\ud83e\udde0 \u0130LK MESAJIN TEK AMACI VAR<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4781\" data-end=\"4791\">\u015eunu unut:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4793\" data-end=\"4811\">\u0130lk mesaj\u0131n amac\u0131:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"4812\" data-end=\"4871\">\n<li data-start=\"4812\" data-end=\"4829\">\n<p data-start=\"4814\" data-end=\"4829\">Etkilemek de\u011fil<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4830\" data-end=\"4846\">\n<p data-start=\"4832\" data-end=\"4846\">Tavlamak de\u011fil<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4847\" data-end=\"4871\">\n<p data-start=\"4849\" data-end=\"4871\">Kendini anlatmak de\u011fil<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4873\" data-end=\"4891\">\ud83c\udfaf <strong data-start=\"4876\" data-end=\"4889\">Tek ama\u00e7:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"4892\" data-end=\"4933\">\n<p data-start=\"4894\" data-end=\"4933\">Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n cevap yazmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"4935\" data-end=\"4944\">Bu kadar.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"4946\" data-end=\"4949\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"4951\" data-end=\"4997\">\u2705 CEVAP GELEN \u0130LK MESAJLARIN ORTAK \u00d6ZELL\u0130\u011e\u0130<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4999\" data-end=\"5018\">Hepsinde 3 \u015fey var:<\/p>\n<ol data-start=\"5020\" data-end=\"5075\">\n<li data-start=\"5020\" data-end=\"5033\">\n<p data-start=\"5023\" data-end=\"5033\">Hafiflik<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5034\" data-end=\"5044\">\n<p data-start=\"5037\" data-end=\"5044\">Merak<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5045\" data-end=\"5075\">\n<p data-start=\"5048\" data-end=\"5075\">Kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa alan b\u0131rakma<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr data-start=\"5077\" data-end=\"5080\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5082\" data-end=\"5123\">\ud83d\udfe2 1. Profil Detay\u0131na Dokunan Mesajlar<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5125\" data-end=\"5164\">Profilinde bir detay varsa, oradan git.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5166\" data-end=\"5177\"><strong data-start=\"5166\" data-end=\"5177\">Yanl\u0131\u015f:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5178\" data-end=\"5191\">\n<p data-start=\"5180\" data-end=\"5191\">\u201cNas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5193\" data-end=\"5203\"><strong data-start=\"5193\" data-end=\"5203\">Do\u011fru:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5204\" data-end=\"5267\">\n<p data-start=\"5206\" data-end=\"5267\">\u201cProfilde \u2018kahve ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131s\u0131\u2019 yaz\u0131yor, bu sabah ka\u00e7\u0131nc\u0131 kahve?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5269\" data-end=\"5278\">Bu mesaj:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5279\" data-end=\"5346\">\n<li data-start=\"5279\" data-end=\"5303\">\n<p data-start=\"5281\" data-end=\"5303\">Okundu\u011funu hissettirir<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5304\" data-end=\"5321\">\n<p data-start=\"5306\" data-end=\"5321\">Ezbere de\u011fildir<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5322\" data-end=\"5346\">\n<p data-start=\"5324\" data-end=\"5346\">Cevap vermesi kolayd\u0131r<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"5348\" data-end=\"5351\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5353\" data-end=\"5392\">\ud83d\udfe2 2. A\u00e7\u0131k U\u00e7lu Ama Bask\u0131s\u0131z Sorular<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5394\" data-end=\"5401\">Cevab\u0131:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5402\" data-end=\"5452\">\n<li data-start=\"5402\" data-end=\"5422\">\n<p data-start=\"5404\" data-end=\"5422\">Evet\/Hay\u0131r olmayan<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5423\" data-end=\"5452\">\n<p data-start=\"5425\" data-end=\"5452\">Ama d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi de zorlamayan<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"5454\" data-end=\"5464\"><strong data-start=\"5454\" data-end=\"5464\">\u00d6rnek:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5465\" data-end=\"5537\">\n<p data-start=\"5467\" data-end=\"5537\">\u201cBurada en \u00e7ok neye g\u00fcl\u00fcyorsun, sa\u00e7ma mesajlara m\u0131 iyi sohbetlere mi?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5539\" data-end=\"5556\">Bu tarz mesajlar:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5557\" data-end=\"5607\">\n<li data-start=\"5557\" data-end=\"5569\">\n<p data-start=\"5559\" data-end=\"5569\">G\u00fcl\u00fcmsetir<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5570\" data-end=\"5588\">\n<p data-start=\"5572\" data-end=\"5588\">Savunma yaratmaz<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5589\" data-end=\"5607\">\n<p data-start=\"5591\" data-end=\"5607\">Sohbeti ba\u015flat\u0131r<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"5609\" data-end=\"5612\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5614\" data-end=\"5644\">\ud83d\udfe2 3. Mini G\u00f6zlem Mesajlar\u0131<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5646\" data-end=\"5685\">\u0130ddia yok.<br data-start=\"5656\" data-end=\"5659\" \/>\u00d6vg\u00fc yok.<br data-start=\"5668\" data-end=\"5671\" \/>Sadece g\u00f6zlem.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5687\" data-end=\"5740\">\n<p data-start=\"5689\" data-end=\"5740\">\u201cProfilin ciddi ama sanki e\u011flenceli biri var gibi.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5742\" data-end=\"5754\">Bu mesajlar:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5755\" data-end=\"5809\">\n<li data-start=\"5755\" data-end=\"5772\">\n<p data-start=\"5757\" data-end=\"5772\">Merak uyand\u0131r\u0131r<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5773\" data-end=\"5809\">\n<p data-start=\"5775\" data-end=\"5809\">Kar\u015f\u0131 taraf kendini anlatmak ister<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"5811\" data-end=\"5814\" \/>\n<h3 data-start=\"5816\" data-end=\"5839\"><\/h3>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5841\" data-end=\"5948\">\n<p data-start=\"5843\" data-end=\"5948\">Bu \u00f6rnekler sana \u201cevet bu\u201d dedirtiyorsa, yaln\u0131z de\u011filsin.<br data-start=\"5900\" data-end=\"5903\" \/>Do\u011fru ortamda sohbet \u00e7ok daha kolay ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5950\" data-end=\"5970\">\ud83d\udc49 <a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\"><strong data-start=\"5953\" data-end=\"5970\">Web\u2019de Ke\u015ffet<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5972\" data-end=\"5975\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5977\" data-end=\"6016\">\ud83d\udfe2 4. Yaz\u0131 Yerine Ses \/ Video Etkisi<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"6018\" data-end=\"6045\">Burada kritik bir fark var.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6047\" data-end=\"6055\">Yaz\u0131yla:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"6056\" data-end=\"6095\">\n<li data-start=\"6056\" data-end=\"6070\">\n<p data-start=\"6058\" data-end=\"6070\">Ton kaybolur<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6071\" data-end=\"6095\">\n<p data-start=\"6073\" data-end=\"6095\">Niyet yanl\u0131\u015f anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"6097\" data-end=\"6127\">Sesli ya da g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc ortamda:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"6128\" data-end=\"6184\">\n<li data-start=\"6128\" data-end=\"6156\">\n<p data-start=\"6130\" data-end=\"6156\">Samimiyet daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ge\u00e7er<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6157\" data-end=\"6184\">\n<p data-start=\"6159\" data-end=\"6184\">\u0130lk temas daha do\u011fal olur<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"6186\" data-end=\"6213\">Bu y\u00fczden bir\u00e7ok kullan\u0131c\u0131:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"6214\" data-end=\"6280\">\n<li data-start=\"6214\" data-end=\"6232\">\n<p data-start=\"6216\" data-end=\"6232\">Yaz\u0131yla zorlanan<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6233\" data-end=\"6280\">\n<p data-start=\"6235\" data-end=\"6280\">Sesle \u00e7ok daha rahat a\u00e7\u0131lan ki\u015filerden olu\u015fur<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"6282\" data-end=\"6285\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"6287\" data-end=\"6327\">\ud83d\udfe2 5. K\u0131sa Ama Devam Ettiren Mesajlar<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"6329\" data-end=\"6375\">\u0130lk mesaj <strong data-start=\"6339\" data-end=\"6362\">sohbeti bitirmemeli<\/strong>, ba\u015flatmal\u0131.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6377\" data-end=\"6388\"><strong data-start=\"6377\" data-end=\"6388\">Yanl\u0131\u015f:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"6389\" data-end=\"6414\">\n<p data-start=\"6391\" data-end=\"6414\">\u201cKendimden bahsedeyim\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"6416\" data-end=\"6426\"><strong data-start=\"6416\" data-end=\"6426\">Do\u011fru:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"6427\" data-end=\"6472\">\n<p data-start=\"6429\" data-end=\"6472\">\u201cBu uygulamada en sa\u00e7ma mesaj neydi sence?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"6474\" data-end=\"6483\">Bu mesaj:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"6484\" data-end=\"6530\">\n<li data-start=\"6484\" data-end=\"6495\">\n<p data-start=\"6486\" data-end=\"6495\">E\u011flenceli<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6496\" data-end=\"6517\">\n<p data-start=\"6498\" data-end=\"6517\">Cevap vermesi kolay<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6518\" data-end=\"6530\">\n<p data-start=\"6520\" data-end=\"6530\">Devam\u0131 var<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"6532\" data-end=\"6535\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"6537\" data-end=\"6565\">\u26a0\ufe0f \u015eUNU YAPMAZLARSA OLMAZ<\/h2>\n<ul data-start=\"6567\" data-end=\"6668\">\n<li data-start=\"6567\" data-end=\"6595\">\n<p data-start=\"6569\" data-end=\"6595\">Ayn\u0131 mesaj\u0131 herkese atma<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6596\" data-end=\"6630\">\n<p data-start=\"6598\" data-end=\"6630\">Profil bo\u015fsa bile ezbere yazma<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6631\" data-end=\"6668\">\n<p data-start=\"6633\" data-end=\"6668\">Cevap gelmedi diye \u00fcst \u00fcste yazma<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"6670\" data-end=\"6711\">Dating d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda <strong data-start=\"6688\" data-end=\"6710\">rahat olan kazan\u0131r<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6713\" data-end=\"6716\" \/>\n<h3 data-start=\"6718\" data-end=\"6760\">\ud83d\udd39 Ara CTA (Deneyim + Uygulama Ge\u00e7i\u015fi)<\/h3>\n<blockquote data-start=\"6762\" data-end=\"6888\">\n<p data-start=\"6764\" data-end=\"6888\">Yaz\u0131yla zorlanan bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi, sesli ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc sohbette \u00e7ok daha rahat.<br data-start=\"6837\" data-end=\"6840\" \/>\u00d6nce web\u2019de bak, istersen uygulamada devam et.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"6890\" data-end=\"6938\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\">\ud83d\udc49 <strong data-start=\"6893\" data-end=\"6914\">Anasayfay\u0131 Ke\u015ffet<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6940\" data-end=\"6943\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"6945\" data-end=\"6958\">\ud83d\udd1a SON S\u00d6Z<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"6960\" data-end=\"6986\">Cevap alamamak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"6987\" data-end=\"7034\">\n<li data-start=\"6987\" data-end=\"6998\">\n<p data-start=\"6989\" data-end=\"6998\">\u00c7irkinlik<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6999\" data-end=\"7012\">\n<p data-start=\"7001\" data-end=\"7012\">Yetersizlik<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"7013\" data-end=\"7034\">\n<p data-start=\"7015\" data-end=\"7034\">\u015eanss\u0131zl\u0131k de\u011fildir<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"7036\" data-end=\"7056\">Yanl\u0131\u015f ilk mesajd\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"7058\" data-end=\"7128\">Do\u011fru ortamda, do\u011fru tonla, do\u011fru ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7<br data-start=\"7101\" data-end=\"7104\" \/><strong data-start=\"7104\" data-end=\"7128\">her \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirir.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131da \u015funu net g\u00f6rd\u00fck:\u00c7o\u011fu insan k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil,fark\u0131nda olmadan eleniyor. Bir \u00f6nceki yaz\u0131y\u0131 okumak i\u00e7in TIKLA \u015eimdi bu yaz\u0131da: Neyi neden yapman gerekti\u011fini \u0130lk mesaj\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki psikolojiyi Ger\u00e7ekten cevap gelen mesaj t\u00fcrlerini ad\u0131m ad\u0131m anlat\u0131yorum. \ud83e\udde0 \u0130LK MESAJIN TEK AMACI VAR \u015eunu unut: \u0130lk mesaj\u0131n amac\u0131: Etkilemek de\u011fil Tavlamak de\u011fil Kendini &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yeni-insanlarla-tanis"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11\/revisions\/16"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}