{"id":10,"date":"2025-12-25T14:51:17","date_gmt":"2025-12-25T11:51:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/?p=10"},"modified":"2025-12-25T14:51:17","modified_gmt":"2025-12-25T11:51:17","slug":"quem-envia-esta-mensagem-e-eliminado-sem-dar-conta-parte-2-como-escrever-primeiras-mensagens-que-recebem-resposta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/quem-envia-esta-mensagem-e-eliminado-sem-dar-conta-parte-2-como-escrever-primeiras-mensagens-que-recebem-resposta\/","title":{"rendered":"\ud83d\udc49 Quem Envia Esta Mensagem \u00e9 Eliminado Sem Dar Conta (Parte 2) \ud83d\udd0e Como Escrever Primeiras Mensagens Que Recebem Resposta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"4174\" data-end=\"4205\">No artigo anterior ficou claro:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4207\" data-end=\"4320\">As pessoas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o ignoradas por falta de valor.<br data-start=\"4255\" data-end=\"4258\" \/>S\u00e3o ignoradas porque a <strong data-start=\"4281\" data-end=\"4319\">primeira mensagem n\u00e3o cria liga\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4207\" data-end=\"4320\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/quem-envia-esta-mensagem-e-eliminado-sem-dar-conta-exemplos-de-primeiras-mensagens-erradas-em-apps-de-dating\/\">Clique aqui para ler o artigo anterior.<\/a><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4322\" data-end=\"4346\">Agora vamos falar sobre:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"4347\" data-end=\"4464\">\n<li data-start=\"4347\" data-end=\"4375\">\n<p data-start=\"4349\" data-end=\"4375\">O que realmente funciona<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4376\" data-end=\"4420\">\n<p data-start=\"4378\" data-end=\"4420\">Porque certas mensagens recebem resposta<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4421\" data-end=\"4464\">\n<p data-start=\"4423\" data-end=\"4464\">Como iniciar conversas de forma natural<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"4466\" data-end=\"4469\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"4471\" data-end=\"4513\">\ud83e\udde0 O OBJETIVO REAL DA PRIMEIRA MENSAGEM<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4515\" data-end=\"4563\">Esquece a ideia de que a primeira mensagem deve:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"4564\" data-end=\"4616\">\n<li data-start=\"4564\" data-end=\"4580\">\n<p data-start=\"4566\" data-end=\"4580\">Impressionar<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4581\" data-end=\"4592\">\n<p data-start=\"4583\" data-end=\"4592\">Seduzir<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4593\" data-end=\"4616\">\n<p data-start=\"4595\" data-end=\"4616\">Contar a tua hist\u00f3ria<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"4618\" data-end=\"4653\">\ud83c\udfaf O verdadeiro objetivo \u00e9 simples:<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"4655\" data-end=\"4680\">\n<p data-start=\"4657\" data-end=\"4680\">Tornar f\u00e1cil responder.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<hr data-start=\"4682\" data-end=\"4685\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"4687\" data-end=\"4734\">\u2705 O QUE TODAS AS BOAS MENSAGENS T\u00caM EM COMUM<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4736\" data-end=\"4762\">Tr\u00eas elementos essenciais:<\/p>\n<ol data-start=\"4764\" data-end=\"4828\">\n<li data-start=\"4764\" data-end=\"4775\">\n<p data-start=\"4767\" data-end=\"4775\">Leveza<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4776\" data-end=\"4792\">\n<p data-start=\"4779\" data-end=\"4792\">Curiosidade<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"4793\" data-end=\"4828\">\n<p data-start=\"4796\" data-end=\"4828\">Espa\u00e7o para o outro participar<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<hr data-start=\"4830\" data-end=\"4833\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"4835\" data-end=\"4863\">\ud83d\udfe2 1. Usar Algo do Perfil<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"4865\" data-end=\"4902\">Se a pessoa partilhou algo, usa isso.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"4904\" data-end=\"4918\"><strong data-start=\"4904\" data-end=\"4918\">Em vez de:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"4919\" data-end=\"4932\">\n<p data-start=\"4921\" data-end=\"4932\">\u201cTudo bem?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"4934\" data-end=\"4944\"><strong data-start=\"4934\" data-end=\"4944\">Tenta:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"4945\" data-end=\"5011\">\n<p data-start=\"4947\" data-end=\"5011\">\u201cDizes que adoras viajar \u2014 qual foi o s\u00edtio que mais te marcou?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5013\" data-end=\"5020\">Mostra:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5021\" data-end=\"5068\">\n<li data-start=\"5021\" data-end=\"5032\">\n<p data-start=\"5023\" data-end=\"5032\">Aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5033\" data-end=\"5051\">\n<p data-start=\"5035\" data-end=\"5051\">Interesse real<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5052\" data-end=\"5068\">\n<p data-start=\"5054\" data-end=\"5068\">Personaliza\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"5070\" data-end=\"5073\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5075\" data-end=\"5109\">\ud83d\udfe2 2. Perguntas Abertas e Leves<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5111\" data-end=\"5159\">Evita perguntas fechadas.<br data-start=\"5136\" data-end=\"5139\" \/>Evita temas pesados.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5161\" data-end=\"5173\"><strong data-start=\"5161\" data-end=\"5173\">Exemplo:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5174\" data-end=\"5234\">\n<p data-start=\"5176\" data-end=\"5234\">\u201cQual foi a mensagem mais estranha que j\u00e1 recebeste aqui?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5236\" data-end=\"5273\">\u00c9 f\u00e1cil de responder e gera conversa.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5275\" data-end=\"5278\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5280\" data-end=\"5308\">\ud83d\udfe2 3. Observa\u00e7\u00f5es Simples<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5310\" data-end=\"5346\">Sem elogios diretos.<br data-start=\"5330\" data-end=\"5333\" \/>Sem exageros.<\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5348\" data-end=\"5415\">\n<p data-start=\"5350\" data-end=\"5415\">\u201cO teu perfil parece calmo, mas acho que tens um lado divertido.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5417\" data-end=\"5439\">Isto cria curiosidade.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5441\" data-end=\"5444\" \/>\n<h3 data-start=\"5446\" data-end=\"5468\"><\/h3>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5470\" data-end=\"5579\">\n<p data-start=\"5472\" data-end=\"5579\">Muitas pessoas sentem-se mais \u00e0 vontade a falar do que a escrever.<br data-start=\"5538\" data-end=\"5541\" \/>No ambiente certo, tudo flui melhor.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5581\" data-end=\"5605\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\">\ud83d\udc49 <strong data-start=\"5584\" data-end=\"5605\">Conhece pelo site<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"5607\" data-end=\"5610\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5612\" data-end=\"5656\">\ud83d\udfe2 4. Porque Voz e V\u00eddeo Funcionam Melhor<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5658\" data-end=\"5709\">Texto n\u00e3o transmite tom.<br data-start=\"5682\" data-end=\"5685\" \/>\u00c9 f\u00e1cil interpretar mal.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5711\" data-end=\"5723\">Voz e v\u00eddeo:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"5724\" data-end=\"5790\">\n<li data-start=\"5724\" data-end=\"5742\">\n<p data-start=\"5726\" data-end=\"5742\">Mostram emo\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5743\" data-end=\"5764\">\n<p data-start=\"5745\" data-end=\"5764\">Criam proximidade<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"5765\" data-end=\"5790\">\n<p data-start=\"5767\" data-end=\"5790\">Tornam tudo mais humano<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr data-start=\"5792\" data-end=\"5795\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"5797\" data-end=\"5841\">\ud83d\udfe2 5. Mensagens Curtas Que Abrem Conversa<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"5843\" data-end=\"5887\">A primeira mensagem n\u00e3o deve fechar assunto.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"5889\" data-end=\"5899\"><strong data-start=\"5889\" data-end=\"5899\">Evita:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5900\" data-end=\"5933\">\n<p data-start=\"5902\" data-end=\"5933\">\u201cVou contar-te tudo sobre mim\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"5935\" data-end=\"5947\"><strong data-start=\"5935\" data-end=\"5947\">Prefere:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote data-start=\"5948\" data-end=\"6008\">\n<p data-start=\"5950\" data-end=\"6008\">\u201cQual foi a conversa mais inesperada que j\u00e1 tiveste aqui?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<hr data-start=\"6010\" data-end=\"6013\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"6015\" data-end=\"6040\">\u26a0\ufe0f O QUE EVITAR SEMPRE<\/h2>\n<ul data-start=\"6042\" data-end=\"6116\">\n<li data-start=\"6042\" data-end=\"6069\">\n<p data-start=\"6044\" data-end=\"6069\">Copiar a mesma mensagem<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6070\" data-end=\"6097\">\n<p data-start=\"6072\" data-end=\"6097\">Pressionar por resposta<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"6098\" data-end=\"6116\">\n<p data-start=\"6100\" data-end=\"6116\">For\u00e7ar interesse<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"6118\" data-end=\"6154\">Quem conversa com leveza destaca-se.<\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6156\" data-end=\"6159\" \/>\n<h3 data-start=\"6161\" data-end=\"6189\">\ud83d\udd39 CTA Final (Web + App)<\/h3>\n<blockquote data-start=\"6191\" data-end=\"6293\">\n<p data-start=\"6193\" data-end=\"6293\">Se escrever n\u00e3o \u00e9 o teu forte, falar pode ser.<br data-start=\"6239\" data-end=\"6242\" \/>Come\u00e7a no site e continua no app quando quiseres.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p data-start=\"6295\" data-end=\"6356\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\">\ud83d\udc49 <strong data-start=\"6298\" data-end=\"6326\">Ir para a p\u00e1gina inicial<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<hr data-start=\"6358\" data-end=\"6361\" \/>\n<h2 data-start=\"6363\" data-end=\"6378\">\ud83d\udd1a CONCLUS\u00c3O<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"6380\" data-end=\"6501\">N\u00e3o receber resposta raramente tem a ver com apar\u00eancia ou sorte.<br data-start=\"6444\" data-end=\"6447\" \/>Quase sempre tem a ver com <strong data-start=\"6474\" data-end=\"6500\">como a conversa come\u00e7a<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"6503\" data-end=\"6532\">No ambiente certo, tudo muda.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No artigo anterior ficou claro: As pessoas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o ignoradas por falta de valor.S\u00e3o ignoradas porque a primeira mensagem n\u00e3o cria liga\u00e7\u00e3o. Clique aqui para ler o artigo anterior. Agora vamos falar sobre: O que realmente funciona Porque certas mensagens recebem resposta Como iniciar conversas de forma natural \ud83e\udde0 O OBJETIVO REAL DA PRIMEIRA MENSAGEM &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guia-para-conhecer-pessoas-novas"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10\/revisions\/12"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/yunvi.chat\/blog\/pt-pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}